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The Prestige Trap: Why Chasing Brand-Name Colleges Increases Stress (and What to Do Instead)

By |December 5, 2025|Categories: Parent Advice, Preparing for College, The Calm College Method|

In neighborhoods across the country, college admissions have become a spectator sport. Parents swap test-score updates at soccer games, teens trade rumors about who got into where, and social media feeds fill up with announcement posts featuring school logos that feel more like status symbols than celebrations. If your family has ever felt the pull of this comparison game, you’re not alone. It’s part of what we call the prestige trap—and it’s quietly fueling stress, disappointment, and burnout for students who deserve better. What Exactly Is the Prestige Trap? The prestige trap is the belief that the value of a [...]

College Review: Bennington College

By |November 9, 2025|Categories: College Spotlights|Tags: , |

Founded in 1932 by educators who felt traditional colleges were too rigid and conservative, Bennington College has always done things differently. Located in the fifth-largest town in Vermont, Bennington is a school for students who want freedom—with structure. With just 800 undergraduates and about 1,200 grad students (not all of whom live on campus), the community is small but ambitious, creative, and tightly woven. The campus itself is modern, with sleek, clean-lined buildings set against a backdrop of trees, trails, and wide-open views of the Green Mountains. You're never far from nature here, and many students take full advantage of [...]

College Review: Middlebury College

By |November 8, 2025|Categories: College Spotlights|Tags: , |

Founded in 1800, Middlebury College is one of the oldest liberal arts colleges in the country—and it’s long been known as a place where ideas, community, and global citizenship converge. With just under 2,800 students, Middlebury offers a highly personal experience set against a backdrop of mountains, hiking trails, and snowy ski days. When Lisa visited with a group of college counselors, the landscaping didn’t exactly wow her (more “functional” than “picturesque”), but the academics, student life, and campus culture left a strong impression. Academic Excellence and Flexibility Middlebury students enjoy the best of both worlds: a core curriculum that [...]

College Review: University of Vermont

By |November 7, 2025|Categories: College Spotlights|Tags: , |

Lisa visited the University of Vermont (UVM) in September 2025 with a group of fellow college counselors, and it was immediately clear: this is a flagship that punches above its weight. Nestled in the vibrant, lakeside city of Burlington, Vermont, UVM blends academic rigor with a strong sense of community, inclusivity, and access to nature. Despite being the state’s public flagship, UVM feels more intimate than many of its peers, with just over 10,000 undergraduates and a manageable 1,300 graduate students. This smaller size gives students more personal access to faculty and resources, while still offering the full breadth of [...]

College Review: Champlain College

By |November 4, 2025|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: , , |

With only 1,700 undergraduates, Champlain College in Burlington, Vermont may be small, but it thinks—and teaches—on a grand scale. During my visit, I heard directly from President Alex Hernandez, whose energy and clarity of vision set the tone for the whole campus. His message was simple but powerful: Champlain’s mission is to graduate students who are truly career-ready—not just with degrees, but with portfolios, experience, and confidence to step right into the workforce. The “Upside-Down Curriculum”: Learn What You Love Now, Not Later Most colleges make students wait until sophomore or junior year to dive into their major. Not Champlain. [...]

College Review: University of New Hampshire

By |November 3, 2025|Categories: College Spotlights|Tags: , , |

If you love the idea of a beautiful red-brick campus just 20 minutes from the ocean and an hour from Boston by train, the University of New Hampshire (UNH) might check all your boxes. Located in the charming town of Durham, UNH feels quintessentially New England—hilly, green, and walkable, with a main street full of pizza places, coffee shops, and friendly faces. With about 11,000 undergraduates, it’s big enough to offer endless opportunities yet small enough to still feel like a community. Strong Academic Programs and Hands-On Learning UNH is especially well-known for its marine science, biology, business, and engineering [...]

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